THE BI-SEXUAL LIFE
Current update as of 5-14-20
Today I talked with both venue owners Karl at the Suburban Oasis and N'sabar at the All in Playhouse and we are all anxious to get our groups together for some good ol' adult playtime. We also agree that when the ime is right we will be ready for you. We have a schedule out and now we can all know when and where we can go when we get a green light. In the mean time I encourage you all to reach out to our various members if your on Fetlife or SLS. Get to know each other and make arrangements to meet our parties. That will give you another nice thing to look forward to. Then think of this. If you are getting acquainted with new friends through various on line sources, when it does come time to meet, think of useing our parties. They are safe, other people are around. Then, if things go as well as you fanasized, youo can play right there. If they don't meet your expectations, there are other people to play with. It can make meeting people from on line fun again. Just something to think about.
I know I have been quiet during this isolation but it's been a good thing. I hope you all have kept busy and safe and healthy. I now have a great looking yard AND I lost 23 lbs so it's ok by me and that's certainly healthy.
I've heard from many of you throughout the pendemic and most are bored silly and some others are keeping in touch with our fellow members. It's always good to get to know other members of our group. That way when parties begin you can make dates to meet and get together. So start chatting up each other and make new friends. I bet it will make the parties more exciting knowing you've arranged to meet new people.
This will be over soon and we'll be able to wonder about freely again. When the restrictions are lifted we want you to know we will start our parties when legally able and safe to do so.
So here is a schedule of our future parties..it is NOT stating that the parties will absolutely be on a day listed...SO PLEASE MAKE NOTE! If we have a party scheduled for May 22 and the restrictions have NOT been lifeted..then use your heads..THAT party will not happen. It's that simple.. You will get the schedule and once they say it's all clear starting XX date..then the NEXT party listed AFTER that date will be a go. Got it? You can bet we will send a note out to everyone ASAP! Tickets will not go on sale until we get a go, that will also be an indicator. You will be able to get you party passes through our web site
So here is what we have planned.
May 16....Saturday,This would finally be our first party at the All IN PLayhouse. from 9 to 3am in Hagerstown, Md.
May 22, Friday, At Suburban Oasis in Springfield Va from 8pm to 2am
June 12th Friday at Suburban Oasis from 8pm to 2am
June 17 Wednesday Could be a DAY party from 12noon to now 7PM Day parties are on hold until we get a determination on how to deal with children's school situation .We'll keep you posted
June 20, Saturday we return to Hagerstown..the All In PLayhouse from 9pm to 3am
June 26, Friday, Join us at Suburban Oasis in Springfield Va 8pm to 2am
July 10, Friday froom 8pm to 2am atthe suburban Oasis in Springfield, va
July 15th Wednesday at Suburban Oasis , Springfield, Va from 12 noon to 7pm
July 18th Saturday Back at The All in Playhouse, Hagerstown from 9pm to 3am
July 24th, Friday at Suburban Oasis, Springfield, Va 8pm to 2am
We'll stop with July and just see how things go. I HOPE we are out and about by then...we we'll all just have to wait and see.
In the meantime, look up fellow members and say hello and make friends...I look forward to everyone getting together again soon and seeing you all.
Sext a friend today, to keep the virus away.
Here is our usual stuff:
TO THE BI-SEXUAL LIFE
THIS IS THE PAGE WHERE WE UPDATE ALL THE CURRENT GOINGS ON OF OUR SOCIAL GROUP. WE GET TOGETHER WHEN WE CAN A FEW TIMES A MONTH AT VARIOUS LOCATIONS, USUALLY PRIVATE HOMES OUR MEMBERS OWN AND ARE GRACIOUS ENOUGH TO ALLOW US TO GATHER.
WE CHECK OUT THE LOCATIONS FOR YOU, AND THEN VET YOU FOR THE HOME OWNERS. OUR GOAL IS TO HAVE FUN, SAFE GATHERINGS FOR OUR SOCIAL GROUP ALL AROUND THE DC AREA SO NO ONE HAS TO DRIVE TOO FAR TO PLAY. OR, IF WORK SCHEDULE IS A PROBLEM AT LEAST THERE WILL BE A PARTY CLOSE ENOUGH TO DRIVE TO TO HAVE YOUR FUN.
(QUICK NOTE, FOR INFO ON HOW TO ATTEND PARTIES AND OUR PAY / REFUND POLICIES. SEE THE NEXT PAGE FOR VENUES. IT IS EXPLAINED THERE)
Hello bi lovers of the world!~
MARCH NEWSLETTER FOR BI-WEEKLY PARTIES
Here is what’s Happening
First. Get your blindfolds ready as we host our first Blackout party at the Suburban Oasis. We can’t make it pitch black so bring your blindfolds and feel your away around to making new friends and acquaintances IT’S THIS FRIDAY SO GET READY! Bring friends, we party form 8 pm to 2 am
NEW CREDIT CARD SERVICE!
We have a credit card service up and running for this party go see article below…
AND we have a NEW PARTY VENUE YOU WILL LOVE
and, CONGRATULATIONS we crowned our Sexiest Valentine Alive.
Hello Everyone and hold on to your hats as we have a new adventure for you.
ALL IN PLAYHOUSE
A couple of weeks ago my co-host John and I had the pleasure to make a little road trip up to Hagerstown to visit a new facility we had come across called the All In Playhouse. The owners N'sabar and Judy along with Pam and Mar were gracious and professional and soon showed us their level of involvement in providing guests with a first-class, erotic lifestyle experience. This late 1800's home is tastefully decorated in first-class style and amenities you won't see in any other venue around. Nothing I have seen recently even compares.
I have been involved in the "swinger scene" since the opening of the very first swingers club in the DC area back in 1977. Since then I have either worked in or for or been too every lifestyle venue at some time or another. So, when I say this place is first class and done up right trust me...it is.
The Tree House in Annapolis was impressive to many so I guarantee if you liked the Treehouse the All In PLayhouse will blow you away.
It starts with the epoxy covered floors to the color selection to the design and use appropriate furniture throughout. It is spacious with over 3000 sf and 4 floors.
The main areas feature a room great for holding special sessions...like our Oral sex survey a hypnosis show, fire demos, etc. ...and the latest in pleasure devices like the new Motobunny. Then a room with a 2-way mirror and large play space.
There is play space throughout and on the lowest floor, there is a dungeon that FEELS like a dungeon with rock walls and narrow walkway that leads to a large very well stocked dungeon bed and area with all you will ever need to enjoy your dungeon experience. In as much as they have a table down there that is a virtual smorgasbord of titillating and stimulating devices. Something for everyone I am sure.
The All In Playhouse is modernized to the max. Including a Hitachi Magic Wand 2.0. If you like your current wand, this will blow you away. You gotta experience it to appreciate it. The house is wired throughout with modern amenities from electric toilets with bidets to a supersonic shower that has to be seen to get the full scope of. The upper floor is the offices with a full modern media room. Where they do their own podcasts and broadcast.
You will start seeing ads all over for this place and I am pleased to say we have made a deal with the owners to sponsor their LGBTQ night on the 3rd Saturday of every month starting March 21st. This is a real opportunity for us to grow our group and help support a first-class operation too. I know Hagerstown is clearly down the road from the DC area BUT, it's not a hard drive and once you see this place you will clearly see why I am so excited about it and want to see this place thrive..
The good parts of holding parties here are, it has a fully stocked bar, we won't ask to bring a snack or plate to share and there is parking for oh, say...300 plus cars right at his back door. No one will get stuck in.
There are very few legitimate locations this well equipped anywhere close to the DC area. To show you, we will direct you to their Fetlife page and their website...you will see...but a visit is the best way to appreciate all this wonderful place has to offer. So get your calendars out and put March 21st on it for our first party at this fantastic location.
You all know my intent and goal is to host parties all around the DC area so no one has to drive too far to find a safe, fun place to play. So, for me to venture out so far, then be impressed enough to jump at an opportunity to host a party here should give you all some insight as to the impressiveness of this new venue. Do yourself a favor, make this trip out, support us, but most importantly treat yourself to a wonderful experience. You will not be disappointed.
ALL-IN-PLAYHOUSE Fet link ** https://fetlife.com/users/9797130 **
So check out their info and website and join us as we start a whole new Bi-weekly adventure...We highly encourage all of you to please, do yourself a favor and make the drive out one time, you will NOT regret it. I am positive you'll come back for sure. There simply is no place this nice anywhere around.
I would be remiss if I didn’t at least mention the owners and why I was so attracted to this venue. A lot of my attraction to this place was the attitude and lifestyle practices of these wonderful people. I am referring to N’Sabar and Judy and Pam and Mar. These guys have the best attitude on life. We do think alike and seem to have the same goals when it comes to the lifestyle and entertaining people.
Here is what they wrote to sum up their particular philosophy as to their Playhouse.
Their goal is to host free-spirited, open-minded and sex-positive (sexpo) parties. We replace outdated judgmental, cliquish with fresh, open-minded inclusion for all people regardless of their play style, kink, fetish, ethnicity, body type or sexual orientation.
For open-minded people being around other like-minded people with diverse interests, including but not limited to LGBTQ, kink, sex/swing and other fetishes. It is the belief of the ALL IN PLAYHOUSE that bringing together multiple aspects of the community acts to amplify the sexual atmosphere and enhance the overall party experience. Especially for those exploring and evolving.
Be a voyeur or a participant, stay in your lane or try something new. Just have a great “fucking” time.
This attitude resonates with me big time. Most of you know that I started my parties because the bi community ..particularly the males…has been looked down upon and actually discouraged at a “regular” swing type club. I have been involved from the beginning and I either ignored my bi side or hid it at a “straight” swing club..Oh , always ok for girls but guys being bi was a no no. So I started my parties to give us our own party where no one judges and we can be ourselves. Ahh, but these guys at All In Playhouse are pushing past this all equal, everybody is ok atmosphere that basically says..If I can put it succinctly…Everyone is welcome here, if you see something YOU don’t like. Just walk away and use another area…(Or you can stick around, observe, learn it, try it and start enjoying it yourself)…ok I threw that last line in …but come on..try some new things, you may like ‘em. Ever see the statement…”Bi-curious”? Well gee, where can you ever go to “practice” on your bi-ness. Suffice to say, all are welcomed and encouraged here.
PARTIES WE HAVE LINED UP!
We still have a party FRIDAY Feb 28th from 8 pm to 2 amat Suburban Oasis. It's BLINDFOLD BLACKOUT night
Try this. Our new credit card process…this is the link. If you want to go try and use this…if you don’t want to use a credit card and use Paypal, that is till on the website thebisexuallife.com
Let me know what you think. The events listed below will be listed soon.
The other parties still being put into the system
Feb, 28th ..Friday at Suburban Oasis…a blindfolded play date..Bring a blindfold or we’ll have some. The main area will be designated as a “Blind Spot” come feel your way to a good time.
March13th Friday at Suburban Oasis 8pm to 2am, Springfield, Va The Rev Dr. FeelGood will be on hand to Hypnotize anyone who wants to explore this fetish or just try it for pure enjoyment. It's always sexy fun. The credit card link..use this...https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bi-weekly-party-3-13-20-at-suburban-oasis-8pm-to-2am-tickets-96313768073
March 18th Wednesday DAY party at S.O. from noon to 4pm, Springfield, Va..Use this Credit card link
March 21st Saturday our PREMIER party at All Inn Playhouse 9pm to 3am, Hagerstown, Md
Themes to come...
If you have an idea for a fun party thmes pass it along we'll give it a try
March 27th Friday at S.O. 8pm to 2am …
April 10th Friday at S.O. from 8pm to 2am…
April 15th Wednesday DAY party at S.O. noon to 4pm…
April 18th Saturday at All In Playhouse 9pm to 3am…
April 24th Friday at S.O. 8pm to 2am…
And many more to come and possibly new locations
And now some other things
Like... the day parties
Join us for our next daytime party 3-18-20 from noon to 4pm. We really need your support for our day party. You asked for it, we arranged it because I want to give you what you want. Now I just ask for your support. Help us out and join us. So far without question, the people that do come out during the day do indeed want to play. So in an effort to always help rpomote people playing, I am thinking of moving the day party to maybe Tuesday from 12 noon to 6pm. This will allow us more time to get together. And if we get support and you need it, later into the night.
We are open to options for something for people to do mid week. What are your thoughts on a Tuesday and longer hours? Or make another suggestion, now is the time. Speak up. Ladies, you are bi too, these parties are for our bi girls too. Now we’ve given you a room just for you. In my initial survey a good number of women showed support. I hope we see more of it as the ladies that do come, do cum.
LADIES ONLY !!!! LADIES ONLY !!!! LADIES ONLY!!!!
This is for the ladies. Now at the Suburban Oasis, we have designated the upstairs bedroom to be a LADIES ONLY ROOM. This will be set aside so the woman have their own area to get away from men.
Women are bi too so my parties are absolutely for them too. They need their bi time for sure. So, in an effort to make this easier for them where they won’t have guys lurking around if they want to do some one on one with the girls…They can take it upstairs to get away. The rules will be the room is for ladies only. If ALL the ladies agree that their husbands or a friend can join or watch in the room. ALL the ladies must agree. If not men, you may watch at the door. Single men stay down stairs.
I hear ya ladies and I listen, sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don’t. So, feel free to take advantage of this space and use it to your heart’s content. Men, my suggestion, don’t even go up the steps. Enjoy the rest of the play areas.
SO COME ON LADIES…YOU HAVE YOUR OWN SPACE!
AND SPEAKING OF LADIES….
Congratulations to CHRISSIE (James) who won our
SEXIEST VALENTINE ALLIVE contest . She earned enough valentines to “blow” away the competition. She was a very busy girl and actually earned extra valentines for riding the Sybian Machine.
She was relentless in her quest to be crowned Sexiest Valentine and she certainty deserved it.
Way to go Chrissie. She now holds bragging rights until next year
Now our regular info.
We are a Bi Sexual Swingers and Kinksters Social Group that provides a safe, sane and fully accepting space for members of our community to meet, play and be themselves.
We welcome all members of our like-minded community and those who are curious to explore The Bi-Sexual Life. WE ask that our single male friends please be Bi-sexual. We ask straight males not accompanying a female to please attend other standard swinger events as this is for the bi community. A straight male may attend as part of a couple. We are open to all races, deviations, preferences, shapes, sizes and fetishes. CDs, TVs and all trans persons are certainly welcome. If you have been looking for a place to truly be yourself.... You have found a home. Here you can do everything you want and nothing you don't want. No always means NO. Explore your boundaries, try new erotic experiences meet new people.
Is this your first time? Are you bi-curious? We welcome new members and the curious to all our events. As this is the place to explore guilt free. Come, look, listen and explore in a safe, sane and no means no environment. A place where you can be you.
We host events every month in Virginia, Maryland and DC. Please go to the Calendar Page to see when our next event will take place.