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Our Venues,

And how to    attend a        party


We are always open to finding new and exciting venues for our regular parties. We check out the venues and then vet the guest for the owners. If you know of a good location send us the info and we'll check it out.

WE host various house parties across the entire DC area and we vet the guest for the safety of the home owners.

                        PLEASE NOTE, NEW INFO AS OF 9-26-22

How do I attend?   I figured I would start with this as it's usually high up on the question list.

 Currently the venue we use, Secret Diversions will handle all ticket sales and passes. 

This is a new service to us so please just follow their directions.


  This is a beautifully decorated and designed single family dwelling specifically designed for out kind of play. Located in Charles county Md. this venue is located directly on route 5 and is easy to get to and find with plenty of parking on site and the street. It has a great deck and outside area for socializing and some of our games. The inside had a full kitchen, with munchie table and area, a viewing room with videos playing. Upstairs has 3 nicely decorated bedrooms, (ONE FOR YOUR GANG BANG DESIRES) In the lowest level you'll find one of the nicest, largest glory Holes around with 10 male hopes and one for the ladies. Then there is the dungeon although it's really too nice to be a dungeon, I prefer to say a room for your BDSM desires. and leave it at that. It's very nicely done. The entire house is design with lifestyle play in mind. So check this place out the first chance you get and enjoy.

 Here is the scoop on attending a party at secret Diversions:

Bi-Weekly Parties has a NEW Location!!! The Reverend DR FeelGood will host the first of Many, 1st Saturday of the Month Lifestyle Event for Bi-Sexuals, Transgender and HyperSexual people in the DMV.

Secret Diversion Social Spot features The Red Door Lounge, DMV's  LARGEST Gloryhole with 10 Male GH and 1 Female GH!
We are the DMVs newest venue for On-Premise lifestyle events.

Date: The first Saturday of every month
Where: Secret Diversion in Waldorf, MD
Time: 8:00pm-2:00am

• Refreshments, ice, mixers and water are included.
• Clean hygiene, smell fresh and be presentable.
• Age 21 and up...!

The door closes at 11 PM sharp make sure you arrive before that time if you want to attend...! If you cannot make it by 11 PM please make prior arrangements with the host.

If you're not feeling well or have been around other sick people catch the next event.

• Lifestyle rules apply we just want to reiterate this for everyone's well-being and safety.

• Yes means CONSENT.
• Stop means STOP.
• No means NO.
• Pick up and clean up after yourself. (Dispose if your condoms respectfully)

Unless its a themed event, the below items are not to be worn.
• No Sweatpants
• No Athletic attire
• No Work Boots (Timberlands)
• No Tanks
• No Shorts
• No Work Clothes
• No Plain t-shirts
• No Hoodies
• No Hats
• No pajamas

Visit our website at and get your ticket/reservation. Address to Secret Diversion will be provided on tickets.

Cash at the door will be subject to a higher cover fee

Connect with us about the party at:
Twitter @DiversionSecre1  &  @reddoorloungemd

TEXT: "10/1"  (The party Date ) to  202-599-7107 for more information.

 Ms Michelle our House Party hostess will assist you.

Email John your Bi-weekly party host at or text 301-385-9100 for information or questions. However, Michelle, our house Hostess will handle all ticket sales.


2. TNT Tuesday Event

This TNT Tuesday event is for the Bisexual, Transgender and Hypersexual community.


However, it is also open to everybody, it's a must that you are BI tolerant.. 


Secret Diversion is a On-Premise, Membership Social scene that offers 3 themed Playrooms, Full Bathrooms, Common areas, fully equipped kitchen, in-house massuer and masseuse & exercise room. 


Outdoor decks, lots of seating & fire features.


Our newest amenity is the Red Door Lounge, largest Gloryhole in the DC area! 


10 Male Gloryholes and 1 Female Gloryhole.


The Red Door Lounge has two downstairs lounges with BDSM equipment for usage.


This event is BYOC & BYOB, Light refreshments, mixers, ice and water will be provided.


TEXT "10/1" to 202-599-7107 for more information to attend. 

We request a prepayment for a couple reasons but mainly to reduce possible no shows. The other is for the safety of the homes. We do not want anyone's home to be known as a place that carries cash. If you can't use the prepay system for some reason you can pay at the door but you must contact John or Michelle the Hosts directly and ask. You will also pay an additional fees.  All payments at the door will be in cash and exact change as we won't have a bank. 

Update...PLEASE NOTE:  Re Prepay and paying at the door.

 And now, a note on no shows who don't pay. I realize completely that shit happens in life. So for the record...please note to always buy your pass in advance .. BUT, if you no show there is no refund nor an "exchange" for another party. If you no show that's it. You don't get to go to another movie or play if you no show not here either. We will always take into consideration any notice you send us for sure...But sending us a notice 1 hour prior or after a party starts probably won't be in your favor...2 or 3 days prior.. or say a day advance...great chance we'll work with you.  MAYBE. Next day sending an oops note...Nope...won't work. Just putting this out there so we are all informed and on the same page. 

  If you are on Fetlife or SLS do let others know you are coming to help promote a party. Where the parties are listed there is a space to indicate if you are attending. Also, since your receipt and our notice may not show the name you use at parties or any guest you are bringing please do drop us an RSVP with the names of who is coming, it will be greatly appreciated. Send to Also use that to contact us if you have any problems.   

Here is a list of our recent venues:

For info contact your host John,
Or tryabiguy on Fetlife and tryabiguy1 on SLS


JOHN'S ESTATE, (White PLains, Md)  is a large 4000sf house on 6 1/2 private acres located in White Plains (Waldorf) MD. There is plenty of parking for all and as with most house parties there is limited space so always sign up early. 50 would be our largest comfortable crowd here. We feature a pool table, Darts, Foosball, Music and a bar. Fire pit outside and a fireplace inside with lots of open play space.

This location is super easy to find and get to. Once out of DC there is only one turn and it's the first house on the left. 


  Morningwood is a private residence in a wooded setting, referred to as "MorningWood" due to the comforting coolness and feeling of serenity the surrounding forestry brings after a long satisfying night spent with friends. Again, parking is limited so sign up early. This is an indoor / outdoor setting with a nice sized pavilion in the back and nice spacious guest house with play areas. These gatherings usually start earlier for a change of pace and we also feature a BBQ so we also have a cookout type setting. So we do ask guest to bring a little something to throw on the bar, drinks or ice to share. Makes for a nice casual setting. They are always adding and improving so come by and see what's new..Psst  a new medical examiner's table is one new addition. ( hmm they may have donated this to Michelle at Secret Sensations)

THE SUBURBAN OASIS now called the Lake House and is new. We still endorse their parties

 All this info is to be changed...coming soon as I review it.

This is a beautiful single family home that is in close by Springfield, Va. It is only 2 minutes off the beltway off of  the Braddock Rd exit. They have a lot of free, open street parking.

 But this house isn't your ordinary house. It is designed for our kind of play. It features a nice 4 person Jacuzzi, a sex swing, Sybian machine, a pool table and lots of space to play in. The basement is in 2 sections one with a couple of large beds and bathroom while the other space has mattresses and massage tables. 

 Owned by Karl he has been hosting parties for a number of years. They told me they have easily had over 100 people at some previous parties. So I don't see a problem with our group at all and it gives us room to grow. 


We are rescheduling for the remainder of 2021 so keep and eye out for any new dates.

                       ALL IN PLAYHOUSE,

we no longer host here BUT we do endorse these parties and location

I recently had the pleasure of meeting the owners of the Newest lifestyle venue in 2020 "The All In Playhouse" in Hagerstown Maryland with my co-host John. The owners were gracious and professional and soon showed us their level of involvement in providing guests with a first-class, erotic lifestyle experience. This late 1800's home is tastefully decorated in first-class style and amenities you won't see in any other venue around. Nothing I have seen recently even compares.
I have been involved in the "swinger scene" since the opening of the very first swingers club in the DC area. Since then I have either worked in or for or been too every lifestyle venue at some time or another. So when I say this place is first class and done up right trust is.
The Tree House in Annapolis was impressive to many so I guarantee if you liked the Treehouse the All In PLayhouse will blow you away.
It starts with the epoxy covered floors to the color selection to the design and use appropriate furniture throughout. It's spacious throughout over 3000 sf and 4 floors.
The main areas feature a room great for holding special our Oral sex survey a hypnosis show, fire demos, etc. ...and the latest in pleasure devises like the new Motobunny. Then a room with a 2-way mirror and large play space.
There is play space throughout and on the lowest floor, there is a dungeon that FEELS like a dungeon with rock walls and narrow walkway that leads to a large very well stocked dungeon bed and area with all you will ever need to enjoy your dungeon experience. In as much as they have a table down there that is a virtual smorgasbord of titillating and stimulating devices. Something for everyone I am sure.
The All In Playhouse is modernized to the max. Including a Hitachi Magic Wand 2.0. If you like your current wand, this will blow you away. You gotta experience it to appreciate it. The house is wired throughout with modern amenities from electric toilets with bidets to a supersonic shower that has to be seen to get the full scope of. The upper floor is the offices with a full media room.
You will start seeing ads all over for this place and I am pleased to say we have made a deal with the owners to sponsor their LGBTQ nite on the 3rd Saturday of every month starting March 21st 2020. This is a real opportunity for us to grow our group and help support a first-class operation too. I know Hagerstown is clearly down the road from the DC area BUT, it's not a hard drive and once you see this place you will clearly see why I am so excited about it and want to see this place thrive..
The good parts of holding parties here are, it has a fully stocked bar, we won't ask to bring a snack or plate to share and there is parking for oh, say...300 plus cars right at his back door. No one will get stuck in.
There are very few legitimate locations this well equipped anywhere close to the DC area. To show you, we will direct you to their Fetlife page and their will see...but a visit is the best way to appreciate all this wonderful place has to offer.

ALL-IN-PLAYHOUSE Fet link ** **
the take over link on 21st
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So check out their info and website and join us as we start a whole new Bi-weekly adventure...We highly encourage all of you to please, do yourself a favor and make the drive out one time, you will NOT regret it. I am positive you'll come back for sure. There simply is no place this nice anywhere around.


If you have a venue, house / party location  and you would like to host a party just contact us and we will help promote your party and help make it a success. Our open events are self sponsored in commercial venues. We also offer a party locator and vetting service to help you find various themed parties, celebrations, and gatherings at private residences throughout the metropolitan area to make new friends and mingle with old ones. The same fee's apply to our locator  and vetting services as to our commercially sponsored parties unless otherwise indicated. (we will try to be consistent so you know what to expect to pay). Additional "House rules", requirements and request of the host/hostess may apply. There is a co-host/party rep. at these parties who is affiliated with Bi-weekly Parties of Md DC and Va so hosts and sponsors may enjoy their party too.

See our page for party locator and vetting service if you want to host a party or know where one might be.

 These parties are all Clothing Optional, On Premise and Open Play. 

Our House parties are traditionally BYOB and for most we are pretty casual and ask for everyone to bring a dish, snack, munchie, drinks, ice or a friend to share with others. 

We also provide some dry pads, condoms and lube. If you have a preference for these items please do bring your own. 

 Each venue offers it's own accommodations so always read up on the specific event.

** Note. Since marijuana laws are relaxing all around our area some...not all...of our house parties may be 420 friendly or provide a designated area so please ask and do not assume anything regarding this. 


I have initiated the prepay policy for various reasons. Since doing so our no show rate went from almost 50% to now only maybe 2 or 3 a party. We have explained our reasons BUT if you must pay at the door please make sure you contact us and let us know. Then, it is cash only, exact change as we don't use a bank. You will pay $40 a single and $50 a couple.


 If you prepay and then do not show up ..that's it..we don't refund no shows. If you have sent us a letter of explanation a a day prior to the party BEFORE you actually don't show. Then we will issue you an exchange for any future party. Refunds will be made in case of exceptional circumstances and provided a notice of any cancellations are made at least 3 hours before a party they paid for.

  We ask our guests to please sign on to any party before 6:00 pm the day of a party. If you elect to pay anyway after that, be warned! There is NO GUARANTEE AT ALL you will get the info / address in time for the party. This is now auto generated so you should get the party address. 

 I need to get ready and drive to the party myself. Then get there, set up and by then guests are arriving and I get busy. Sometimes I don't even get on the internet to check late signers until after the party actually starts. I do try to get on as soon as I can. So if you sign on late and don't get the info in time. You have been advised.  Do try and plan better next time. 

 Also, some of our venues have limits as to people and or cars we can accommodate and therefore we will have cut offs. This being stated if you sign on late and just decide to show up at any of our venues just because you know where it is and have been there before, it is possible you could be turned away. Just be advised that's a possibility.

 We do ask all of our guest to please arrive by 11pm if you can. If you must arrive after that please do let us know in advance. 



































































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