And how to attend a party
We are always open to finding new and exciting venues for our regular parties. We check out the venues and then vet the guest for the owners. If you know of a good location send us the info and we'll check it out.
WE host various house parties across the entire DC area and we vet the guest for the safety of the home owners.
PLEASE NOTE, NEW INFO AS OF 1-6-2020
Your receipt will be from Certified DJs in case you are worried about what it will show on your account. When we get the notice of your prepayment you will be sent the address of the party.
The CHANGE...It appears when I installed the pay pal option on the site I got a credit/debit card service through the web site. It seems even I was unaware that the two services were actually separate. I knew we now did pay pal and could also accept credit cards so I would just tell people to "Simply go out and get a prepaid credit card and that will solve any concerns you have as to discretion". I guess I thought they were connected to each other so if you didn't have pay pal, no worries we took cards and a prepaid card made it really discrete. Well, now it appears you will need to download the pay pal ap and install it to set this up. It's easy and simple to do.
I still want people to prepay and we will now accept exact cash at the door Singles Now $35 and couples $50. I will get full services up as soon as I can.
We request a prepayment for a couple reasons but mainly to reduce possible no shows. The other is for the safety of the homes. We do not want anyone's home to be known as a place that carries cash. If you can't use the prepay system for some reason you can pay at the door but you must contact John the Host directly and ask. You will also pay an additional $10 fee. All payments at the door will be in cash and exact change as we won't have a bank.
Update...PLEASE NOTE: Re Prepay and paying at the door.
And now, a note on no shows who don't pay. I realize completely that shit happens in life. So for the record..please note to always buy your pass in advance ...and always before 6pm on weekend night parties and 10am for a day party. BUT, if you no show there is no refund nor an "exchange" for another party..If you no show that's it. You don't get to go to another movie or play if you no show there..so not here either. We will always take into consideration any notice you send us for sure...But sending us a notice after a party starts probably won't be in your favor...2 or 3 hours prior.. or say a day even...in advance...great chance we'll work with you. Next day sending an oops note...Nope...won't work. Just putting this out there so we are all informed and on the same page.
If you are on Fetlife or SLS do let others know you are coming to help promote a party. Where the parties are listed there is a space to indicate if you are attending. Also, since your receipt and our notice may not show the name you use at parties or any guest you are bringing please do drop us an RSVP with the names of who is coming, it will be greatly appreciated. Send to firstname.lastname@example.org. Also use that to contact us if you have any problems.
Here is a list of our current venues:
JOHN'S ESTATE, (White PLains, Md) is a large 4000sf house on 6 1/2 private acres located in White Plains (Waldorf) MD. There is plenty of parking for all and as with most house parties there is limited space so always sign up early. 50 would be our largest comfortable crowd here. We feature a pool table, Darts, Foosball, Music and a bar. Fire pit outside and a fireplace inside with lots of open play space.
This location is super easy to find and get to. Once out of DC there is only one turn and it's the first house on the left.
MORNINGWOOD IN LAPLATA, MD
Morningwood is a private residence in a wooded setting, referred to as "MorningWood" due to the comforting coolness and feeling of serenity the surrounding forestry brings after a long satisfying night spent with friends. Again, parking is limited so sign up early. This is an indoor / outdoor setting with a nice sized pavilion in the back and nice spacious guest house with play areas. These gatherings usually start earlier for a change of pace and we also feature a BBQ so we also have a cookout type setting. So we do ask guest to bring a little something to throw on the bar, drinks or ice to share. Makes for a nice casual setting. They are always adding and improving so come by and see what's new..Psst a new medical examiner's table is one new addition.
The TREEHOUSE. Is currently closed and the owners are looking to relocate their venue for us.
We'll keep you posted on this as it develops.
ALL ADDRESSES FOR OUR VENUES AND PARTIES WILL BE GIVEN UP RECEIPT OF YOUR RSVP TO
We add a new venue called Jane's Harmony Haven located in Fredericksburg, Va. This is a large private home nestled on 5 secluded acres. This is a large home with plenty of play space ans lots of parking I am venturing out there for a personal viewing and as soon as I have more info I'll pass it along.
So come out and join in on this new location. It's not local for a lot of you but we have a good number of members who live south of DC in Va and in Southern Md.. We try to get locations that will work and be close to our members all around the Dc area...So, if you are close come check this out.
We are currently not using this venue but there is a possibility of hosting another party in the future.
THE SUBURBAN OASIS
This is a beautiful single family home that is in close by Springfield, Va. It is only 2 minutes off the beltway off of the Braddock Rd exit. They have a lot of free, open street parking.
But this house isn't your ordinary house. It is designed for our kind of play. It features a nice 4 person Jacuzzi, a sex swing, Sybian machine, a pool table and lots of space to play in. The basement is in 2 sections one with a couple of large beds and bathroom while the other space has mattresses and massage tables.
Owned by Carl and Amanda, they have been hosting parties for a number of years. They told me they have easily had over 100 people at some previous parties. So I don't see a problem with our group at all and it gives us room to grow.
We will also be hosting our daytime meetups in Virginia here on Wednesdays from 12 noon to 3PM on alternating weeks with Susan's Sanctuary.
Please come out and check out this great venue.
If you have a venue, house / party location and you would like to host a party just contact us and we will help promote your party and help make it a success. Our open events are self sponsored in commercial venues. We also offer a party locator and vetting service to help you find various themed parties, celebrations, and gatherings at private residences throughout the metropolitan area to make new friends and mingle with old ones. The same fee's apply to our locator and vetting services as to our commercially sponsored parties unless otherwise indicated. (we will try to be consistent so you know what to expect to pay). Additional "House rules", requirements and request of the host/hostess may apply. There is a co-host/party rep. at these parties who is affiliated with Bi-weekly Parties of Md DC and Va so hosts and sponsors may enjoy their party too.
See our page for party locator and vetting service if you want to host a party or know where one might be.
These parties are all Clothing Optional, On Premise and Open Play.
Our House parties are traditionally BYOB and for most we are pretty casual and ask for everyone to bring a dish, snack, munchie, drinks, ice or a friend to share with others.
We also provide some dry pads, condoms and lube. If you have a preference for these items please do bring your own.
Each venue offers it's own accommodations so always read up on the specific event.
** Note. Since marijuana laws are relaxing all around our area some...not all...of our house parties may be 420 friendly or provide a designated area so please ask and do not assume anything regarding this.
OUR PREPAY / REFUND, EXCHANGE POLICY
I have initiated the prepay policy for various reasons. Since doing so our no show rate went from almost 50% to now only maybe 2 or 3 a party. We have explained our reasons BUT if you must pay at the door please make sure you contact us and let us know. Then, it is cash only, exact change as we don't use a bank. You will pay a $10 pay at door fee.
(it was $20 but it has been reduced until I get a new credit card service)
If you prepay and then do not show up ..that's it..we don't refund no shows. If you have sent us a letter of explanation a minimum of 2 hours prior to the party BEFORE you actually don't show. Then we will issue you an exchange for any future party. Refunds will be made in case of exceptional circumstances and provided a notice of any cancellations are made at least two hours before a party they paid for.
We ask our guests to please sign on to any party before 6:00 pm the day of a party. If you elect to pay anyway after that, be warned! There is NO GUARANTEE AT ALL you will get the info / address in time for the party.
I need to get ready and drive to the party myself. Then get there, set up and by then guests are arriving and I get busy. Sometimes I don't even get on the internet to check late signers until after the party actually starts. I do try to get on as soon as I can. So if you sign on late and don't get the info in time. You have been advised. Do try and plan better next time.
Also, some of our venues have limits as to people and or cars we can accommodate and therefore we will have cut offs. This being stated if you sign on late and just decide to show up at any of our venues just because you know where it is and have been there before, it is possible you could be turned away. Just be advised that's a possibility.
We do ask all of our guest to please arrive by 11pm if you can. If you must arrive after that please do let us know in advance.