Our Venues,

And how to    attend a        party

We are always open to finding new and exciting venues for our regular parties. We check out the venues and then vet the guest for the owners. If you know of a good location send us the info and we'll check it out.

WE host various house parties across the entire DC area and we vet the guest for the safety of the home owners.

                        PLEASE NOTE, NEW INFO AS OF 4-29-21

How do I attend?   I figured I would start with this as it's usually high up on the question list. Hopefully you go to our this site and see everything BUT, On the home page here you will see the menu bar. We have a tab that says "Pay for party" but I know some computers or more specifically, phones, do not show this. So if yours does not, see the "MORE" tab. When you click it the pay for party option will appear. Pick the date/party you want to attend. Then pick the single/couple option or the new party pass option. Then just follow directions as to prepayment.  We now use Eventbrite as our ticket service

and they accept all forms of credit  / debit and even PayPal as means of prepayment.  They accept PayPal so you may indeed need to set up a pay pal account which is actually easy. I suggest you get the ap on your phone and fill one out.  A receipt will be sent to you and one to us.

Your receipt will be from Certified DJs in case you are worried about what it will show on your account. When we get the notice of your prepayment you will be sent the address of the party.  


We request a prepayment for a couple reasons but mainly to reduce possible no shows. The other is for the safety of the homes. We do not want anyone's home to be known as a place that carries cash. If you can't use the prepay system for some reason you can pay at the door but you must contact John the Host directly and ask. You will also pay an additional fees.  Singles $50 and couples $70 cash at the door. All payments at the door will be in cash and exact change as we won't have a bank. 

Update...PLEASE NOTE:  Re Prepay and paying at the door.

 And now, a note on no shows who don't pay. I realize completely that shit happens in life. So for the record..please note to always buy your pass in advance ...and always before 6pm on weekend night parties and 10am for a day party.  BUT, if you no show there is no refund nor an "exchange" for another party. If you no show that's it. You don't get to go to another movie or play if you no show there..so not here either. We will always take into consideration any notice you send us for sure...But sending us a notice 1 hour prior or after a party starts probably won't be in your favor...2 or 3 hours prior.. or say a day even...in advance...great chance we'll work with you.  Next day sending an oops note...Nope...won't work. Just putting this out there so we are all informed and on the same page. 

  If you are on Fetlife or SLS do let others know you are coming to help promote a party. Where the parties are listed there is a space to indicate if you are attending. Also, since your receipt and our notice may not show the name you use at parties or any guest you are bringing please do drop us an RSVP with the names of who is coming, it will be greatly appreciated. Send to tryabiguy@aol.com. Also use that to contact us if you have any problems.   

Here is a list of our current venues:


This Venue is brand new as of 5-1-2021 so let's start with  Villa Kumar Lactaed so conviemiently off the beltway and Central Ave near Fed Ex Field. OUR EASIEST AND BEST LOCATION YET!

We’ve made some changes and added a brand new party spot
As the covid situation winds down we are revving up to greet you as you venture out to party once again. And we have a brand new party spot for you that I swear you are going to love.
And I have said AIP was the nicest play spot close to DC and I mean it, you guys know me. “I’ll lie next to you, but never to you.”
However!? I am forever diligent in my efforts to find you the best party spots available for our get togethers and I do believe I have found an equally astonishing venue! Be prepared to be amazed as I introduce you to the brand new “VILLA KUMAR”. I believe this is now the NICEST, closest and easiest party spot I have found us yet. This is a beautiful 9,000SF home that is just meticulously decorated and laid out with Moroccan Tile throughout the house. Granite counter tops and floors add to the opulence that prevails in this palace of a home.
This amazing new spot is less than 1 mile inside the beltway on Central Ave. over near the Fed Ex Stadium. There is PLENTY of FREE parking all around the house and the metro is close.
The owner is an awesome guy some of you may have met at our parties named Vick Kumar. He’s XXIndianGYpsyXX on Fetlife so say hello and introduce yourself.
Vick and I both agree we want to provide a fun safe place for the bisexual community to be able to meet and play. We will also offer a warm welcome to the Trans community as there are so few places for them to meet that is safe and close by. Villa Kumar is open to all sexual Orientations*.
This marvelous Villa has a lot of amenities. It will have it’s own entrance at the end of the driveway. And Vick has designated 3200sf of this home specifically for our party needs. There is a snack bar and bar, social area. 6 person Jacuzzi, dungeon with St Andrews cross, a tie down/spanking bench, massage tables, Sybian machine, Sex swing, Glory holes , (we are working on a dark room).
We have made changes to our parties and I hope you like some of what I’ve come up with.
The Villa Kumar will offer and exclusive “Photo/Video Room” Of course we never allow photos at all at our parties. However, have you ever wanted to get some good fun sexy shots of you having sex and playing that wasn’t just a one angle set shot on a stationary Tripod that missed half of the good action? We’ll set a room aside, you bring your own camera (OR USE OURS) as we won’t keep pictures and we’ll help you make a good video or pictures. Vick says he even knows a good photographer. This can be done on a party night or ask Vick and I bet he’ll accommodate you by appointment.
There will be no smoking in the house, vaping in certain areas and there will be a 420 friendly designated area. Cigarettes outside only.
It will be BYOB and we will supply some snacks. We will not require you to bring snacks like before but will certainly appreciate people who want to pitch in for our designated snack / social area.
We will also provide some protection and lube but recommend if you have specific needs to please bring your own.
We will also make some changes in our Fees. We will use Eventbrite and ask that all passes be purchased in advance. Because we do our parties at private homes we do not want that location to be known to carry cash so please pay in advance. BUT, If you insist and must pay at the door there will be an extra fee, cash only, exact change and you must let us know in advance.
Now here are some changes we have made.
New prices and ticket specials.
Couples $50… a couples may be m/f, 2 guys or 2 girls
Single men and women $35.
All single girls may bring one free FEMALE guest to these parties.
Single " STRAIGHT" males should be accompanied by a woman.
The first 10 girls at these parties $10 ( SUBJECT TO CHANGE)
The first 10 couples $25 ( SUBJECT TO CHANGE)
We are offering a Party Pass packet deal. Buy four party passes and get one free. This is to get our regular guests a loyalty break .
Couples who purchase 4 passes @$200 get $250 in passes.
Singles Purchase $140 in passes get $175 in Passes.
(all passes are for Villa Kumar)
Our Policy will be if you come as a woman you will be treated as a woman.
So, if you remember how I bragged on AIP? I have to do the same here as Villa Kumar is an equally elaborate Venue. It’s nice, recently remodeled, tastefully done, well equipped, FREE PARKING, it’s close by to anyone in the DC area…Heck we all know where Fed ex Field is…
Our Bi-weekly parties will be on the 2nd and 4th Saturday of every month. Our first one is TENTATIVE SCHEDULED FOR May 8th. That’s our Grand Opening party so please check your schedules now and help us make this a huge success. YOU WILL be impressed with this great new place.
11PM will be our cut off time at the door. If you know you will be later you must make arrangements.
We will come up with more specials and themes as we get things going.
As the year progresses I would like to host some mid week meet and greets to help our members get acquainted and make arrangements to meet at our parties.
If anyone has any suggestions for a good meet and greet spot just let me know.
Also a sexy, slutty female host to help us at the parties.
That’s it for now, I will keep you posted on new developments I hope I see you all real soon…Let the parties begin.
For info contact your host John, TryabiGuy@aol.com
Or tryabiguy on Fetlife and tryabiguy1 on SLS

JOHN'S ESTATE, (White PLains, Md)  is a large 4000sf house on 6 1/2 private acres located in White Plains (Waldorf) MD. There is plenty of parking for all and as with most house parties there is limited space so always sign up early. 50 would be our largest comfortable crowd here. We feature a pool table, Darts, Foosball, Music and a bar. Fire pit outside and a fireplace inside with lots of open play space.

This location is super easy to find and get to. Once out of DC there is only one turn and it's the first house on the left. 


  Morningwood is a private residence in a wooded setting, referred to as "MorningWood" due to the comforting coolness and feeling of serenity the surrounding forestry brings after a long satisfying night spent with friends. Again, parking is limited so sign up early. This is an indoor / outdoor setting with a nice sized pavilion in the back and nice spacious guest house with play areas. These gatherings usually start earlier for a change of pace and we also feature a BBQ so we also have a cookout type setting. So we do ask guest to bring a little something to throw on the bar, drinks or ice to share. Makes for a nice casual setting. They are always adding and improving so come by and see what's new..Psst  a new medical examiner's table is one new addition. 


 This is a beautiful single family home that is in close by Springfield, Va. It is only 2 minutes off the beltway off of  the Braddock Rd exit. They have a lot of free, open street parking.

 But this house isn't your ordinary house. It is designed for our kind of play. It features a nice 4 person Jacuzzi, a sex swing, Sybian machine, a pool table and lots of space to play in. The basement is in 2 sections one with a couple of large beds and bathroom while the other space has mattresses and massage tables. 

 Owned by Karl he has been hosting parties for a number of years. They told me they have easily had over 100 people at some previous parties. So I don't see a problem with our group at all and it gives us room to grow. 


We are rescheduling for the remainder of 2021 so keep and eye out for any new dates.

                       ALL IN PLAYHOUSE

I recently had the pleasure of meeting the owners of the Newest lifestyle venue in 2020 "The All In Playhouse" in Hagerstown Maryland with my co-host John. The owners were gracious and professional and soon showed us their level of involvement in providing guests with a first-class, erotic lifestyle experience. This late 1800's home is tastefully decorated in first-class style and amenities you won't see in any other venue around. Nothing I have seen recently even compares.
I have been involved in the "swinger scene" since the opening of the very first swingers club in the DC area. Since then I have either worked in or for or been too every lifestyle venue at some time or another. So when I say this place is first class and done up right trust me...it is.
The Tree House in Annapolis was impressive to many so I guarantee if you liked the Treehouse the All In PLayhouse will blow you away.
It starts with the epoxy covered floors to the color selection to the design and use appropriate furniture throughout. It's spacious throughout over 3000 sf and 4 floors.
The main areas feature a room great for holding special sessions...like our Oral sex survey a hypnosis show, fire demos, etc. ...and the latest in pleasure devises like the new Motobunny. Then a room with a 2-way mirror and large play space.
There is play space throughout and on the lowest floor, there is a dungeon that FEELS like a dungeon with rock walls and narrow walkway that leads to a large very well stocked dungeon bed and area with all you will ever need to enjoy your dungeon experience. In as much as they have a table down there that is a virtual smorgasbord of titillating and stimulating devices. Something for everyone I am sure.
The All In Playhouse is modernized to the max. Including a Hitachi Magic Wand 2.0. If you like your current wand, this will blow you away. You gotta experience it to appreciate it. The house is wired throughout with modern amenities from electric toilets with bidets to a supersonic shower that has to be seen to get the full scope of. The upper floor is the offices with a full media room.
You will start seeing ads all over for this place and I am pleased to say we have made a deal with the owners to sponsor their LGBTQ nite on the 3rd Saturday of every month starting March 21st 2020. This is a real opportunity for us to grow our group and help support a first-class operation too. I know Hagerstown is clearly down the road from the DC area BUT, it's not a hard drive and once you see this place you will clearly see why I am so excited about it and want to see this place thrive..
The good parts of holding parties here are, it has a fully stocked bar, we won't ask to bring a snack or plate to share and there is parking for oh, say...300 plus cars right at his back door. No one will get stuck in.
There are very few legitimate locations this well equipped anywhere close to the DC area. To show you, we will direct you to their Fetlife page and their website...you will see...but a visit is the best way to appreciate all this wonderful place has to offer.

ALL-IN-PLAYHOUSE Fet link ** https://fetlife.com/users/9797130 **
the take over link on 21st
** https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sexpobi-weekly-parties-playhouse-takeover-tickets-96499002113 **

So check out their info and website and join us as we start a whole new Bi-weekly adventure...We highly encourage all of you to please, do yourself a favor and make the drive out one time, you will NOT regret it. I am positive you'll come back for sure. There simply is no place this nice anywhere around.


If you have a venue, house / party location  and you would like to host a party just contact us and we will help promote your party and help make it a success. Our open events are self sponsored in commercial venues. We also offer a party locator and vetting service to help you find various themed parties, celebrations, and gatherings at private residences throughout the metropolitan area to make new friends and mingle with old ones. The same fee's apply to our locator  and vetting services as to our commercially sponsored parties unless otherwise indicated. (we will try to be consistent so you know what to expect to pay). Additional "House rules", requirements and request of the host/hostess may apply. There is a co-host/party rep. at these parties who is affiliated with Bi-weekly Parties of Md DC and Va so hosts and sponsors may enjoy their party too.

See our page for party locator and vetting service if you want to host a party or know where one might be.

 These parties are all Clothing Optional, On Premise and Open Play. 

Our House parties are traditionally BYOB and for most we are pretty casual and ask for everyone to bring a dish, snack, munchie, drinks, ice or a friend to share with others. 

We also provide some dry pads, condoms and lube. If you have a preference for these items please do bring your own. 

 Each venue offers it's own accommodations so always read up on the specific event.

** Note. Since marijuana laws are relaxing all around our area some...not all...of our house parties may be 420 friendly or provide a designated area so please ask and do not assume anything regarding this. 


I have initiated the prepay policy for various reasons. Since doing so our no show rate went from almost 50% to now only maybe 2 or 3 a party. We have explained our reasons BUT if you must pay at the door please make sure you contact us and let us know. Then, it is cash only, exact change as we don't use a bank. You will pay $40 a single and $50 a couple.


 If you prepay and then do not show up ..that's it..we don't refund no shows. If you have sent us a letter of explanation a a day prior to the party BEFORE you actually don't show. Then we will issue you an exchange for any future party. Refunds will be made in case of exceptional circumstances and provided a notice of any cancellations are made at least 3 hours before a party they paid for.

  We ask our guests to please sign on to any party before 6:00 pm the day of a party. If you elect to pay anyway after that, be warned! There is NO GUARANTEE AT ALL you will get the info / address in time for the party. This is now auto generated so you should get the party address. 

 I need to get ready and drive to the party myself. Then get there, set up and by then guests are arriving and I get busy. Sometimes I don't even get on the internet to check late signers until after the party actually starts. I do try to get on as soon as I can. So if you sign on late and don't get the info in time. You have been advised.  Do try and plan better next time. 

 Also, some of our venues have limits as to people and or cars we can accommodate and therefore we will have cut offs. This being stated if you sign on late and just decide to show up at any of our venues just because you know where it is and have been there before, it is possible you could be turned away. Just be advised that's a possibility.

 We do ask all of our guest to please arrive by 11pm if you can. If you must arrive after that please do let us know in advance. 


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